Chaplain’s Corner: Now Is the Time – Embracing Summer’s Rhythm

By Sarah Sexton | Publish Date July 03, 2025

During this season, I enjoy hearing about how various people spend their summers. I remember when I was a parish pastor, I looked forward to the programmatic pressure diminishing once summer arrived. Of course, it never did. Life—life in the church, and life here at Kirkwood—never truly slows down. It simply shifts with the seasons, maintaining its own steady pace.

Years ago, some church experts labeled churches by size: from “pastoral” (large enough for only a full-time pastor, no other full-time staff) all the way up to the biggest churches, labeled “corporate.” These corporate churches have many staff members producing a large amount of programmatic material, which in turn requires an organizational chart and chain of command. When I was on staff at a corporate-sized church, we had a director of operations. She managed all the intricate scheduling and logistics for our numerous programs, along with our housekeeping and maintenance teams.

I remember one year when I was still new on staff, she said she was looking forward to the current “crunch” being over so we could get back to “normal.” Over the next several years, she repeated that desire to return to normal, usually during the Easter and Christmas seasons, our busiest times. After about the fourth year she told me she was looking forward to getting back to normal, I said, “This is normal.” She looked at me, smiled, and said, “I guess it is.” It was a simple truth: life has its rhythms, and sometimes, the busiest rhythm is the normal.

I could wax philosophical or offer sage advice about living in the moment, but I think you’ve had ample opportunities to hear that advice from others much more qualified than I am. Instead of advice, I simply want to share what I hear and see others embracing this summer. They are celebrating birthdays with joy; hosting lively pool parties complete with pizza, cake, and ice cream; sending loved ones off to summer camp fully equipped; embarking on long-dreamed-of bucket list travels; finally starting that home project that always got pushed aside; and, crucially, making time to visit old friends they haven’t seen face-to-face in too long—because those opportunities are precious.

Now is the time to embrace the summer rhythm. I hope you have fun and enjoy this season. I plan to.

Peace,

Cary

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The Residents

Our residents come from different backgrounds and bring their unique qualities, talents, and life experiences to complete the Kirkwood community. Here are just a few reflections from some individuals who call Kirkwood their home.

My time at Kirkwood was spectacular; they taught me how to walk again. The staff was outstanding, and the care was beyond reproach. When I arrived, I had a long way to go. I was very sick. The first night, they had to lift me as I could not move by myself. When I left, they were chasing me down the hallway. They taught me how to perform the activities of daily living again. It was the best care I could have prayed for, and on top of that, the food was spectacular.

Eli Gold Past Resident

I fell in love with the cottage and the view from my back porch. I am excited to have a yard for Ginger, my poodle, to play in and my own garage, all within an established retirement community!

Charlotte Hamilton Current Resident

My husband and I looked at a number of places when deciding to move to a retirement community. For the most part, we found communities that said, ‘We’re going to take care of you.’ But Kirkwood was different. It wasn’t just about taking care of us. It was also about having fun, having friends, and living life to the fullest. The attitude at Kirkwood was positive and the atmosphere was comforting. We simply couldn’t resist. Without a doubt, the location was ideal. The Cahaba Room that overlooks the river, the mountains, the trails – there were just so many things about life. The community was lively. It was alive.

Alice Brooks Current Resident

We realized we were approaching an age where we might need more assistance than what just downsizing could provide. Knowing we have my sons nearby and the levels of care should we need it is comforting, and the beautiful hillside, river, and the woods makes it that much more appealing. We don’t know of any other community that has the woods, the various levels of care, and so many different amenities.

Phyllis and John Guschke Current Residents

We were moving my parents down from the Cleveland area to be near us. I looked at almost every retirement place in the Birmingham area. The second I turned into Kirkwood’s drive and drove up the hill, I knew that I’d found the perfect place for my parents to live in Alabama. In the six years that my parents have been at Kirkwood, I have always felt nothing but love and helpfulness from every staff member. Everyone is always helpful with a pleasant attitude. You can truly see and feel the family atmosphere. I’m happy that my parents can call Kirkwood their home.

Brenda Sheehan Kirkwood family member

When we learned that Cedar Ridge was being developed, that seemed to fit our needs very well. It is the ideal place for the next phase of our retirement.

Carol and Arthur Stephens Current Residents

One thing that we feel is very important here at Kirkwood by the River is the relationship that we have between the staff and the residents. They are dedicated to making our life here as safe and secure and pleasurable as possible. That goes a long way.

Fred Rogers Current Resident

The community's cottage living surrounded by a wooded, natural environment with access to future healthcare services is what attracted us to Kirkwood!

Rick and Jane Ricketts Current Residents