Chaplain’s Corner: Sports and Shared Grace

By Sarah Sexton | Publish Date August 03, 2026

One of the things that tells me we are in the middle of summer is baseball. Of course, there is the heat, the afternoon thunderstorms, and, if we are lucky, a trip to the beach. Scripture reminds us that “for everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven” (Ecclesiastes 3:1), and summer certainly brings its own distinct rhythm of life and memory.

I remember playing Little League baseball during my early growing-up years. I started my first season playing third base because I was one of the only guys on my team who could make the throw from third to first. I then moved to catcher. My final year, I played second base. Later, in high school, I played left field or center field because I was fast and could cover the ground.

I liked catcher the best. Back in those days, my legs never got tired, and my knees didn’t ache and pop when I bent. I liked playing catcher because there was always something happening. That should have been a clue that I had ADD (attention deficit disorder). When I was a kid, there were no accommodations for kids with ADD; I just had to learn to sit still. What a reminder that God guides us through every stage of our physical and personal growth, sometimes teaching us patience and endurance in unexpected ways.

This spring, I had renewed excitement about the baseball season when my grandson started playing “coach pitch.” I knew summer was arriving when he took the field. Then on Father’s Day, I drove to Atlanta and met my son’s family (including my baseball-playing grandson) for a Braves game. It was a lovely day.

The game itself was disappointing for the Braves, as they lost 9-2 after the Milwaukee Brewers scored 8 runs in the second inning. The only real excitement for the home team was when a new Brave went to bat in the ninth inning and hit a solo home run. None of us cared much about the score, though; we were there as a family and had a wonderful time. Proverbs 17:6 tells us that “grandchildren are the crown of the aged,” and watching the next generation run the bases after the game with their dad and uncle running right alongside them was a vivid reminder of the joy found in family fellowship.

Kirkwood residents enjoyed fellowship over a Braves baseball game during a recent overnight trip to Atlanta. Only about two hours from Birmingham, Atlanta serves as the perfect weekend getaway, and the group enjoyed sights, shopping, dinner, and the game. This time, the Braves won with the help of five home runs!

While baseball is an American pastime that marks the summer for many, this summer brought a new energy around soccer to America with the World Cup. Stadiums were filled. Many spectators traveled from their home countries to watch in person, cheer on, and support their teams. I loved the sense of community that people from all over the world shared during the tournament. I loved watching the competition on the field, the sportsmanship and post-game handshakes and hugs between opposing teams, and the personal stories of the players (like a legendary 39-year-old competing against an 18-year-old star on another team).

Like the Olympics, the World Cup happens every four years. It is fierce competition, but the competitors show profound respect for each other, recognizing how fortunate they are to be among the elite.

As a community of faith, we are called to a similar standard of grace and unity. Romans 12:10 encourages us to “outdo one another in showing honor.” Whether on an athletic field, in an office, in a communal living space, or within our own homes, it is important to respect our differences and honor one another’s unique talents and accomplishments. May we carry a spirit of hospitality, fellowship, joy, and mutual respect into our days ahead. Maybe most especially in the South as we enter the next season – American football season.

Peace,

Cary

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The Residents

Our residents come from different backgrounds and bring their unique qualities, talents, and life experiences to complete the Kirkwood community. Here are just a few reflections from some individuals who call Kirkwood their home.

My time at Kirkwood was spectacular; they taught me how to walk again. The staff was outstanding, and the care was beyond reproach. When I arrived, I had a long way to go. I was very sick. The first night, they had to lift me as I could not move by myself. When I left, they were chasing me down the hallway. They taught me how to perform the activities of daily living again. It was the best care I could have prayed for, and on top of that, the food was spectacular.

Eli Gold Past Resident

I fell in love with the cottage and the view from my back porch. I am excited to have a yard for Ginger, my poodle, to play in and my own garage, all within an established retirement community!

Charlotte Hamilton Current Resident

My husband and I looked at a number of places when deciding to move to a retirement community. For the most part, we found communities that said, ‘We’re going to take care of you.’ But Kirkwood was different. It wasn’t just about taking care of us. It was also about having fun, having friends, and living life to the fullest. The attitude at Kirkwood was positive and the atmosphere was comforting. We simply couldn’t resist. Without a doubt, the location was ideal. The Cahaba Room that overlooks the river, the mountains, the trails – there were just so many things about life. The community was lively. It was alive.

Alice Brooks Current Resident

We realized we were approaching an age where we might need more assistance than what just downsizing could provide. Knowing we have my sons nearby and the levels of care should we need it is comforting, and the beautiful hillside, river, and the woods makes it that much more appealing. We don’t know of any other community that has the woods, the various levels of care, and so many different amenities.

Phyllis and John Guschke Current Residents

We were moving my parents down from the Cleveland area to be near us. I looked at almost every retirement place in the Birmingham area. The second I turned into Kirkwood’s drive and drove up the hill, I knew that I’d found the perfect place for my parents to live in Alabama. In the six years that my parents have been at Kirkwood, I have always felt nothing but love and helpfulness from every staff member. Everyone is always helpful with a pleasant attitude. You can truly see and feel the family atmosphere. I’m happy that my parents can call Kirkwood their home.

Brenda Sheehan Kirkwood family member

When we learned that Cedar Ridge was being developed, that seemed to fit our needs very well. It is the ideal place for the next phase of our retirement.

Carol and Arthur Stephens Current Residents

One thing that we feel is very important here at Kirkwood by the River is the relationship that we have between the staff and the residents. They are dedicated to making our life here as safe and secure and pleasurable as possible. That goes a long way.

Fred Rogers Current Resident

The community's cottage living surrounded by a wooded, natural environment with access to future healthcare services is what attracted us to Kirkwood!

Rick and Jane Ricketts Current Residents
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