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Chaplain’s Corner: Advent

By Sarah Sexton | Publish Date December 13, 2024

“Advent” means coming or arrival. This word has a double significance, as in Advent, we celebrate Christ’s coming into the world and look with longing for his coming again. The season of Advent begins with an emphasis on final things (eschatology). We watch and pray with expectant hope for the establishment of God’s justice and the return of the Prince of Peace. As the weeks of Advent progress, the focus shifts to thanks and praise for the birth of the one who has already come—Jesus Christ our Savior.

The origin of the season of Advent is uncertain. It may have been patterned after the season of Lent as a period of penitence before Christmas, or as a time of preparation for baptism at Epiphany. The duration of Advent was, in some times and places, as long as six or seven weeks.

The above quote comes from the section on “The Christian Year” in the Book of Common Worship for the Presbyterian Church, USA (2018).

The theme for Advent is light coming into the world. Many churches observe the tradition of lighting Advent wreaths to begin worship during this season. There are Advent hymns, different from Christmas carols, that are sung during this season. “Come, Thou Long-Expected Jesus,” and “O Come, O Come, Emmanuel,” are two examples.

During Advent, we prepare for the light that comes into the world at Christ’s birth. It is a disciplined time of preparation. In our world today, it takes great discipline to withstand the pressure of consumerism that has taken over Christmas.

I like Christmas music. But I do not like it non-stop on the radio beginning the first of November. I’m not sure how to describe my feelings about the deluge of Christmas advertising that seems to begin after Labor Day. Am I irritated? Yes. Am I disappointed? Yes. My emotions have not risen to the level of anger. I don’t want to be “Ebenezer Scrooge.” I want others to enjoy the spirit of Christmas. But the true meaning of Christmas is not about the smiling faces of children sitting around a Christmas tree in a sea of rumpled wrapping paper.

I know this is a battle I will not win. It is probably not even a battle to fight. But I don’t want the Magi in the manger with baby Jesus. Jesus might have been two years old by the time the Magi arrived in Bethlehem. That’s why Herod ordered all the children in and around Bethlehem from infant to two years old executed (Mtt.2.16). But, I digress.

During Advent we combine the discipline of preparation with the joy of hope in anticipation for the Nativity. We decorate places of worship with holly wreaths, Advent wreaths with candles, and Chrismon trees. Chrismon trees are different from Christmas trees, distinguished by the different decorations. Chrismon trees are decorated with all Christian symbols.

I pray that each of you can find moments of quiet during this season to remember the advent, or arrival, that has made the difference in our lives.

Peace.

Cary

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The Residents

Our residents come from different backgrounds and bring their unique qualities, talents, and life experiences to complete the Kirkwood community. Here are just a few reflections from some individuals who call Kirkwood their home.

My time at Kirkwood was spectacular; they taught me how to walk again. The staff was outstanding, and the care was beyond reproach. When I arrived, I had a long way to go. I was very sick. The first night, they had to lift me as I could not move by myself. When I left, they were chasing me down the hallway. They taught me how to perform the activities of daily living again. It was the best care I could have prayed for, and on top of that, the food was spectacular.

Eli Gold Past Resident

I fell in love with the cottage and the view from my back porch. I am excited to have a yard for Ginger, my poodle, to play in and my own garage, all within an established retirement community!

Charlotte Hamilton Current Resident

My husband and I looked at a number of places when deciding to move to a retirement community. For the most part, we found communities that said, ‘We’re going to take care of you.’ But Kirkwood was different. It wasn’t just about taking care of us. It was also about having fun, having friends, and living life to the fullest. The attitude at Kirkwood was positive and the atmosphere was comforting. We simply couldn’t resist. Without a doubt, the location was ideal. The Cahaba Room that overlooks the river, the mountains, the trails – there were just so many things about life. The community was lively. It was alive.

Alice Brooks Current Resident

We realized we were approaching an age where we might need more assistance than what just downsizing could provide. Knowing we have my sons nearby and the levels of care should we need it is comforting, and the beautiful hillside, river, and the woods makes it that much more appealing. We don’t know of any other community that has the woods, the various levels of care, and so many different amenities.

Phyllis and John Guschke Current Residents

We were moving my parents down from the Cleveland area to be near us. I looked at almost every retirement place in the Birmingham area. The second I turned into Kirkwood’s drive and drove up the hill, I knew that I’d found the perfect place for my parents to live in Alabama. In the six years that my parents have been at Kirkwood, I have always felt nothing but love and helpfulness from every staff member. Everyone is always helpful with a pleasant attitude. You can truly see and feel the family atmosphere. I’m happy that my parents can call Kirkwood their home.

Brenda Sheehan Kirkwood family member

When we learned that Cedar Ridge was being developed, that seemed to fit our needs very well. It is the ideal place for the next phase of our retirement.

Carol and Arthur Stephens Current Residents

One thing that we feel is very important here at Kirkwood by the River is the relationship that we have between the staff and the residents. They are dedicated to making our life here as safe and secure and pleasurable as possible. That goes a long way.

Fred Rogers Current Resident

The community's cottage living surrounded by a wooded, natural environment with access to future healthcare services is what attracted us to Kirkwood!

Rick and Jane Ricketts Current Residents