Chaplain’s Corner: Faith, Forgiveness, and Rico the Porcupine – A Reflection on Seeing

By Sarah Sexton | Publish Date October 30, 2025

Our recent Lectionary* readings from the Gospel of Luke have been centered on the theme of faith: Who has it? How much is enough? Can faith be quantified?

One such story is the sobering parable of the Rich Man and Lazarus. A central point in that last story is how often those of us who have cannot truly see those who do not. The unnamed wealthy man, tragically, never noticed Lazarus. The Gospel of Luke also tells the familiar stories of the Prodigal Son and the Good Samaritan.

Most of these stories are grouped in what I call the “On the Road” section of Luke. About halfway through this Gospel, Jesus “turns his face toward Jerusalem.” Along that journey, Jesus tells powerful stories to teach his disciples—and us—what discipleship truly means. Of course, faith is an essential key to discipleship. While Matthew emphasizes faith as essential to bringing about healing and wholeness, Luke emphasizes faith as being the key to forgiveness. We, as readers of the Gospels, have the perspective to see that both healing and forgiveness result from faith.

Seeing the Unexpected: The Case of Rico the Porcupine

The challenge of “seeing” isn’t always biblical. My friend and colleague, Bob Madsen (the Regional Presbyter for the Presbyteries of South Alabama and Mississippi), recently wrote a newsletter article about a porcupine named Rico who lives at the Cincinnati Zoo.

Rico has his own live stream, and somehow, videos of him happily munching on chips and vegetables keep popping up on the Presbytery’s Facebook feed. Bob has never had an affinity for porcupines – he is decidedly not a hugger or overly affectionate. Yet, after watching Rico, Bob confessed that the little creature had, in the providence of God, unexpectedly brightened his day. He even admitted Rico was “kind of cute.”

The story of Rico makes me wonder: How often does God place something or someone in our life—a person, an animal, an opportunity, or a small miracle—that we simply fail to see? We may not see the poor man at our gate, or we might miss the chance to offer a cool drink to a thirsty traveler. Those two examples sound Biblical – perhaps more like metaphors than real-life encounters – but what about the opportunity to care for those in need? I know we sometimes develop systems of not seeing as a way of protecting ourselves from the guilt of not being able to offer everyone a helping hand.

The Faithful Response: Small Things with Great Love

So, what is the faithful response to the needs of the world?

For me, it’s about involvement. I can’t financially support every worthwhile mission and ministry, but I choose where and with whom I can be personally engaged. That might mean volunteering to build a Habitat Home, helping cook dinner for the First Light Women’s shelter in downtown Birmingham, or supporting local food pantries, soup kitchens, and homeless ministries. I choose where I am involved.

I can’t save the world, but I can heed the beautiful advice of Mother Teresa, which constantly rings in my ears:

“We cannot do great things. Only small things with great love.”

Looking Ahead to Advent

November marks the end of one church year with the celebration of Christ the King, and the beginning of a new one with Advent—our season to prepare for the coming of the Christ Child at Christmas. This new year brings us the Gospel According to Matthew.

No matter the season, I encourage you to open your eyes and your ears to see the small miracles and the great opportunities God places right in front of you.

Peace,

Cary

*Lectionary – Selected readings from the Old Testament, Psalms, Epistles and Acts, and the Gospels. The readings are on three-year cycles, with each year featuring one of the synoptic Gospels and John is scattered throughout all three years.

*Photo of Rico the Porcupine from Cincinnati Zoo and Botanical Garden

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The Residents

Our residents come from different backgrounds and bring their unique qualities, talents, and life experiences to complete the Kirkwood community. Here are just a few reflections from some individuals who call Kirkwood their home.

My time at Kirkwood was spectacular; they taught me how to walk again. The staff was outstanding, and the care was beyond reproach. When I arrived, I had a long way to go. I was very sick. The first night, they had to lift me as I could not move by myself. When I left, they were chasing me down the hallway. They taught me how to perform the activities of daily living again. It was the best care I could have prayed for, and on top of that, the food was spectacular.

Eli Gold Past Resident

I fell in love with the cottage and the view from my back porch. I am excited to have a yard for Ginger, my poodle, to play in and my own garage, all within an established retirement community!

Charlotte Hamilton Current Resident

My husband and I looked at a number of places when deciding to move to a retirement community. For the most part, we found communities that said, ‘We’re going to take care of you.’ But Kirkwood was different. It wasn’t just about taking care of us. It was also about having fun, having friends, and living life to the fullest. The attitude at Kirkwood was positive and the atmosphere was comforting. We simply couldn’t resist. Without a doubt, the location was ideal. The Cahaba Room that overlooks the river, the mountains, the trails – there were just so many things about life. The community was lively. It was alive.

Alice Brooks Current Resident

We realized we were approaching an age where we might need more assistance than what just downsizing could provide. Knowing we have my sons nearby and the levels of care should we need it is comforting, and the beautiful hillside, river, and the woods makes it that much more appealing. We don’t know of any other community that has the woods, the various levels of care, and so many different amenities.

Phyllis and John Guschke Current Residents

We were moving my parents down from the Cleveland area to be near us. I looked at almost every retirement place in the Birmingham area. The second I turned into Kirkwood’s drive and drove up the hill, I knew that I’d found the perfect place for my parents to live in Alabama. In the six years that my parents have been at Kirkwood, I have always felt nothing but love and helpfulness from every staff member. Everyone is always helpful with a pleasant attitude. You can truly see and feel the family atmosphere. I’m happy that my parents can call Kirkwood their home.

Brenda Sheehan Kirkwood family member

When we learned that Cedar Ridge was being developed, that seemed to fit our needs very well. It is the ideal place for the next phase of our retirement.

Carol and Arthur Stephens Current Residents

One thing that we feel is very important here at Kirkwood by the River is the relationship that we have between the staff and the residents. They are dedicated to making our life here as safe and secure and pleasurable as possible. That goes a long way.

Fred Rogers Current Resident

The community's cottage living surrounded by a wooded, natural environment with access to future healthcare services is what attracted us to Kirkwood!

Rick and Jane Ricketts Current Residents