Chaplain’s Corner: Entering the Sacred Season of Lent

By Sarah Sexton | Publish Date February 09, 2026

As we enter the season of Lent, we find ourselves at a unique intersection of faith and nature. The word “Lent” actually comes from the Old English lencten, which means “springtime,” and the Germanic langitinaz, referring to the “lengthening” of our days. Just as the sun lingers longer over the Cahaba each evening, Lent invites us to linger longer in reflection and renewal.

People often ask me about the origins of the Holy Days on the church calendar. The most common question is, “Why do we do this?” It is a question that mirrors the one asked in Jewish families at the beginning of Passover rituals: a desire to connect our current actions to ancient truths.

Shrove Tuesday, the day before Ash Wednesday, traditionally served as a time for confession and absolution before the solemnity of Lent began. Now it has come to include more celebrating than repenting, often associated with pancake suppers and Mardi Gras celebrations. These celebrations are also steeped in tradition, as households would use up rich foods like eggs, sugar, and fat before the fasting season of Lent.

Ash Wednesday marks the beginning of the Lent. Throughout the Hebrew Bible—from the people of Nineveh to the stories of Job and Jeremiah—ashes have been used as a profound expression of grief, humility, and repentance. Though the practice of receiving ashes on Ash Wednesday was observed in the early church, it was not officially recognized until the Council of Nicaea in 325. We begin our journey to Easter with the sign of the ashes to speak to the frailty and uncertainty of human life and the shared heart of penitence in community.

This year on Ash Wednesday, I am delighted to announce that The Rev. Becca Walton, Associate Rector at St. Luke’s Episcopal Church, will join me for the imposition of ashes for the Kirkwood community. We invite you to join us for this special service on February 18, at 2:00pm, in the Kirkwood Beeson Family Chapel.

We begin the Ash Wednesday service with these words:

“Beloved people of God: every year at the time of the Christian Passover we celebrate our redemption through the death and resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ. Lent is a time to prepare for this celebration and to renew our life in the paschal mystery. We begin this holy season by acknowledging our need for repentance, and for the mercy and forgiveness proclaimed in the gospel of Jesus Christ.”

I invite you, therefore, in the name of Christ, to observe a holy Lent by self-examination and penitence, by prayer and fasting, by works of love, and by meditation on God’s word. Let us bow before God – our Creator and Redeemer – confess our sin, and walk together on this journey from Lent to the joy of Easter.

Peace,

Cary

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The Residents

Our residents come from different backgrounds and bring their unique qualities, talents, and life experiences to complete the Kirkwood community. Here are just a few reflections from some individuals who call Kirkwood their home.

My time at Kirkwood was spectacular; they taught me how to walk again. The staff was outstanding, and the care was beyond reproach. When I arrived, I had a long way to go. I was very sick. The first night, they had to lift me as I could not move by myself. When I left, they were chasing me down the hallway. They taught me how to perform the activities of daily living again. It was the best care I could have prayed for, and on top of that, the food was spectacular.

Eli Gold Past Resident

I fell in love with the cottage and the view from my back porch. I am excited to have a yard for Ginger, my poodle, to play in and my own garage, all within an established retirement community!

Charlotte Hamilton Current Resident

My husband and I looked at a number of places when deciding to move to a retirement community. For the most part, we found communities that said, ‘We’re going to take care of you.’ But Kirkwood was different. It wasn’t just about taking care of us. It was also about having fun, having friends, and living life to the fullest. The attitude at Kirkwood was positive and the atmosphere was comforting. We simply couldn’t resist. Without a doubt, the location was ideal. The Cahaba Room that overlooks the river, the mountains, the trails – there were just so many things about life. The community was lively. It was alive.

Alice Brooks Current Resident

We realized we were approaching an age where we might need more assistance than what just downsizing could provide. Knowing we have my sons nearby and the levels of care should we need it is comforting, and the beautiful hillside, river, and the woods makes it that much more appealing. We don’t know of any other community that has the woods, the various levels of care, and so many different amenities.

Phyllis and John Guschke Current Residents

We were moving my parents down from the Cleveland area to be near us. I looked at almost every retirement place in the Birmingham area. The second I turned into Kirkwood’s drive and drove up the hill, I knew that I’d found the perfect place for my parents to live in Alabama. In the six years that my parents have been at Kirkwood, I have always felt nothing but love and helpfulness from every staff member. Everyone is always helpful with a pleasant attitude. You can truly see and feel the family atmosphere. I’m happy that my parents can call Kirkwood their home.

Brenda Sheehan Kirkwood family member

When we learned that Cedar Ridge was being developed, that seemed to fit our needs very well. It is the ideal place for the next phase of our retirement.

Carol and Arthur Stephens Current Residents

One thing that we feel is very important here at Kirkwood by the River is the relationship that we have between the staff and the residents. They are dedicated to making our life here as safe and secure and pleasurable as possible. That goes a long way.

Fred Rogers Current Resident

The community's cottage living surrounded by a wooded, natural environment with access to future healthcare services is what attracted us to Kirkwood!

Rick and Jane Ricketts Current Residents