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Chaplain’s Corner: Saints and Sinners, Heroes and Villians

By Sarah Sexton | Publish Date October 09, 2024

Quite a few years ago, parents of young trick-or-treat aged children who were congregants where I was pastor at the time were particularly anxious about Halloween. The concern was that scary costumes and decorations could have an evil influence on their children. The anxiety they experienced seemed to escalate among their friends and neighbors.

As I remembered my hospital chaplain training, keeping calm to help manage their anxieties, I decided not to fight the fear of demons at Halloween. Rather, I suggested to the parents in the church that we emphasize the importance of All Saints Day. All Saints Day, celebrated on November 1, is a feast day observing all the saints of the church, both known and unknown, and it is often a time when we communally celebrate our loved ones who have passed. As the history of Halloween began as a mixture of Celtic religious ideas and Christian martyrology, I believed our concentrating on All Saints Day as a parish would be a much healthier focus of our energy and allow for education and growth. I knew our strategy had succeeded when some of the church children dressed as saints of the church that year for Halloween. Others dressed as reformers and well-known leaders of the church: Martin Luther, John Knox, John and Charles Wesley.

I am in favor of celebrating Halloween. I believe it is healthy for us to recall with respect, reverence, and fun, those who have shown us a better way – the teachers, friends, family members, fictional characters, philanthropists, community service workers, entrepreneurs, athletes, and pop icons. We can inspire our imaginations, and we can engage with our neighbors in a way that promotes creativity, silliness, and a sense of wonder.

What I know as an adult is that evil never looks like the costumes that might scare little kids. Evil could be displayed as something attractive, as we see in the Amazon Prime version of the Tolkien story, The Rings of Power. The character Sauron offers the other characters in the story power for “good;” however, the result is greed, betrayal, and violence. Evil can be dishonesty, selfishness, or causing harm. Evil exists; but so does good. When considering the celebration of Halloween, I think it is important to pause to remember that although there are “monsters” out there, there are also princesses and superheroes – and most significantly, God is with us in the midst of it all.

This Halloween at Kirkwood, we are preparing for our annual Trick-or-Treat Apartment Sweep. Residents who choose to participate will hand out candy to family members, staff, and community friends. Kids will roam the halls with excitement and anticipation, and our residents always light up with joy. We will eat candy. And whether dressed as villain or hero, we will greet one another with love, with gratitude, and with a “Happy Halloween.”

Peace,

Cary

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The Residents

Our residents come from different backgrounds and bring their unique qualities, talents, and life experiences to complete the Kirkwood community. Here are just a few reflections from some individuals who call Kirkwood their home.

My time at Kirkwood was spectacular; they taught me how to walk again. The staff was outstanding, and the care was beyond reproach. When I arrived, I had a long way to go. I was very sick. The first night, they had to lift me as I could not move by myself. When I left, they were chasing me down the hallway. They taught me how to perform the activities of daily living again. It was the best care I could have prayed for, and on top of that, the food was spectacular.

Eli Gold Past Resident

I fell in love with the cottage and the view from my back porch. I am excited to have a yard for Ginger, my poodle, to play in and my own garage, all within an established retirement community!

Charlotte Hamilton Current Resident

My husband and I looked at a number of places when deciding to move to a retirement community. For the most part, we found communities that said, ‘We’re going to take care of you.’ But Kirkwood was different. It wasn’t just about taking care of us. It was also about having fun, having friends, and living life to the fullest. The attitude at Kirkwood was positive and the atmosphere was comforting. We simply couldn’t resist. Without a doubt, the location was ideal. The Cahaba Room that overlooks the river, the mountains, the trails – there were just so many things about life. The community was lively. It was alive.

Alice Brooks Current Resident

We realized we were approaching an age where we might need more assistance than what just downsizing could provide. Knowing we have my sons nearby and the levels of care should we need it is comforting, and the beautiful hillside, river, and the woods makes it that much more appealing. We don’t know of any other community that has the woods, the various levels of care, and so many different amenities.

Phyllis and John Guschke Current Residents

We were moving my parents down from the Cleveland area to be near us. I looked at almost every retirement place in the Birmingham area. The second I turned into Kirkwood’s drive and drove up the hill, I knew that I’d found the perfect place for my parents to live in Alabama. In the six years that my parents have been at Kirkwood, I have always felt nothing but love and helpfulness from every staff member. Everyone is always helpful with a pleasant attitude. You can truly see and feel the family atmosphere. I’m happy that my parents can call Kirkwood their home.

Brenda Sheehan Kirkwood family member

When we learned that Cedar Ridge was being developed, that seemed to fit our needs very well. It is the ideal place for the next phase of our retirement.

Carol and Arthur Stephens Current Residents

One thing that we feel is very important here at Kirkwood by the River is the relationship that we have between the staff and the residents. They are dedicated to making our life here as safe and secure and pleasurable as possible. That goes a long way.

Fred Rogers Current Resident

The community's cottage living surrounded by a wooded, natural environment with access to future healthcare services is what attracted us to Kirkwood!

Rick and Jane Ricketts Current Residents