Chaplain’s Corner: The Sacred Gift of a Story

By Sarah Sexton | Publish Date June 23, 2026

The summer I graduated from high school, I landed a job as the “kitchen boy” at the new church camp in Springville—Camp Covenant Mountain. The camp had only been open for one season before I arrived. I lived in a tiny cabin tucked behind the mess hall, sharing one side with the other kitchen boy while the two cooks lived on the other.

I remember it now as pure fun. I was young, strong, and full of energy. Hauling heavy tables and chairs every day, mopping the floors, and washing endless stacks of dishes didn’t feel like hard work back then—though I know my back wouldn’t survive an attempt to lift one of those tables today. I quickly learned the ropes of running the industrial-sized Hobart dishwashers, and my hands grew tough enough to handle the steaming hot plates as I stacked them back on the shelves for the next meal.

One of the absolute best perks of the gig was that I could eat all I wanted. I’ll never forget the night we served spaghetti. The kitchen crew always ate after the campers were finished and the dishes were washed. That night, emboldened by a teenager’s appetite, I decided I could clean out an entire serving platter full of spaghetti. The head cook, a sweet grandmotherly public-school dietician, ran the kitchen alongside her husband, the camp maintenance man who could build or repair absolutely anything. At their request, we affectionately called them “Ma” and “Pa.”

As I walked up to the giant pot to load up my serving platter, Ma looked at me and asked what on earth I was doing. When I told her my grand plan, she smiled and simply said, “Don’t make yourself sick.” You might expect this story to end with an emergency room visit, but the reality is much less dramatic. I made it about halfway through the mountain of pasta, realized my limits, and wisely called it quits. I didn’t make myself sick, but I certainly learned a lesson in humility.

Decades later at Kirkwood, I find myself still gathered around dining tables, but now my favorite part of the meal is listening to the incredible stories our residents tell. Scripture frequently reminds us of the sacred value of looking back. In Deuteronomy 32:7, we are told: “Remember the days of old; consider the generations long past. Ask your father and he will tell you, your elders, and they will explain to you.”

The stories our residents share are a living testament to that truth. They speak of childhood adventures, high school heartbreaks, time spent serving in the military, leaving home for college, and the beautiful early years of marriage when newlyweds had little money but survived on love and faith anyway. Many of these stories make me laugh until I cry.

I recently heard someone repeat a phrase his father-in-law used to say before launching into a narrative: “Don’t stop me if you’ve heard this one before—I love telling it.”

There is a profound holy duty in telling and holding onto our stories. Telling them keeps the memories alive. Remembering the stories keeps us close to the people within them. Our memories are a precious gift from God, connecting our past, present, and future in His enduring love, because the people who fill them are so deeply precious to us. Camp Covenant Mountain in Springville holds a special place in my memory.

Peace,

Cary

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The Residents

Our residents come from different backgrounds and bring their unique qualities, talents, and life experiences to complete the Kirkwood community. Here are just a few reflections from some individuals who call Kirkwood their home.

My time at Kirkwood was spectacular; they taught me how to walk again. The staff was outstanding, and the care was beyond reproach. When I arrived, I had a long way to go. I was very sick. The first night, they had to lift me as I could not move by myself. When I left, they were chasing me down the hallway. They taught me how to perform the activities of daily living again. It was the best care I could have prayed for, and on top of that, the food was spectacular.

Eli Gold Past Resident

I fell in love with the cottage and the view from my back porch. I am excited to have a yard for Ginger, my poodle, to play in and my own garage, all within an established retirement community!

Charlotte Hamilton Current Resident

My husband and I looked at a number of places when deciding to move to a retirement community. For the most part, we found communities that said, ‘We’re going to take care of you.’ But Kirkwood was different. It wasn’t just about taking care of us. It was also about having fun, having friends, and living life to the fullest. The attitude at Kirkwood was positive and the atmosphere was comforting. We simply couldn’t resist. Without a doubt, the location was ideal. The Cahaba Room that overlooks the river, the mountains, the trails – there were just so many things about life. The community was lively. It was alive.

Alice Brooks Current Resident

We realized we were approaching an age where we might need more assistance than what just downsizing could provide. Knowing we have my sons nearby and the levels of care should we need it is comforting, and the beautiful hillside, river, and the woods makes it that much more appealing. We don’t know of any other community that has the woods, the various levels of care, and so many different amenities.

Phyllis and John Guschke Current Residents

We were moving my parents down from the Cleveland area to be near us. I looked at almost every retirement place in the Birmingham area. The second I turned into Kirkwood’s drive and drove up the hill, I knew that I’d found the perfect place for my parents to live in Alabama. In the six years that my parents have been at Kirkwood, I have always felt nothing but love and helpfulness from every staff member. Everyone is always helpful with a pleasant attitude. You can truly see and feel the family atmosphere. I’m happy that my parents can call Kirkwood their home.

Brenda Sheehan Kirkwood family member

When we learned that Cedar Ridge was being developed, that seemed to fit our needs very well. It is the ideal place for the next phase of our retirement.

Carol and Arthur Stephens Current Residents

One thing that we feel is very important here at Kirkwood by the River is the relationship that we have between the staff and the residents. They are dedicated to making our life here as safe and secure and pleasurable as possible. That goes a long way.

Fred Rogers Current Resident

The community's cottage living surrounded by a wooded, natural environment with access to future healthcare services is what attracted us to Kirkwood!

Rick and Jane Ricketts Current Residents
Kirkwood by the River